Thanks for the replies guys, sorry for the late response - Been snowed under with exams.

All the replies made sense, and I do need to find out if my T is willing to learn about the issue, I did feel interrogated though when he was asking.. *sigh* why is therapy so complicated.

Man it sucks to finally talk about such a big issue for this to happen, i've partially lost faith in the process as a result on reflection..

I decided to take a therapy break anyway, a minor one.. just a week for now but...maybe two.. to collect my thoughts and be away from my T. Thanks again for the replies, really appreciated.