Yes Payne, I am not surprised. Honestly, anything that is "judging" is going to affect the "safety" this site trys to provide. What is special about this site is that it is "not" Facebook, it is more intimate and safe. At least that is what a mental health support site should be. It should be an "encouraging site" to help people take a step to also getting therapy as well. In keeping with "therapy" the goal of every therapist is to give patients a sense of "safety" where they will "not" be judged.