I think it sounds like you are doing everything you can to be a good mom, if you need help with raising your daughter there is nothing wrong with that...and it's good you have a husband and mom who can help. It's not your fault you have mental health issues and you can only do the best you can so try not to feel too guilty about it. Besides you are obviously responsible enough to know you may not be able to do it all on your own.

Sorry I don't have much in the way of advice, but I know it can be hard having symptoms interfere with your life and ability to function in roles you want to function in.