FrightenedRabbit
If you have been close to this person for along time. It takes time to let them go.
My ex and I were married along time. I dont think theres a day when i dont think of him. Not really in a good way as we had big issues.
I still thou can rememeber the good times, Its very hard to let go of ppl.
Sometimes I think you let them go for a time. Then they are back.
That will not happen with my ex.
Good luck to you and give it time. Keep busy as i found that had helped.