I just posted a thread about mine getting out of hand. I feel like everything scares me even doing day to day functions that I love to do. I am a stay at home girlfriend and I get joy out of doing it. My boyfriend appericates and knows that what I do is not easy but sometimes I get anxious over what if I don't clean everything just right or what if his dinner is not cooked just right. He would never get mad at me for not cleaning or cooking. I just put so much pressure on myself to be perfect that sometimes I worry about these things.