Wonderful that you've found someone special - am very happy for you!

I hope too that you never feel the urge to self-harm again. I do have a little thought tho - its unhealthy to put too much emphasis on one person. It's much healthier, and much better for you if you deal with why you self-harm, and do your best to get it under control. Why? Because if you guys were ever to split, or fall out, you may find yourself coping with it by self-harming once more. She, and nobody else for that matter, is responsible for your happiness. That's something that you have to find with yourself.

Hugs to you.