Did it scare the T off who said that? Are you seeing Ts who tell you they don't want to work with you? It just seems an odd comment to me from a therapist with so little information about you and your therapist search. How does she know you are "scaring Ts off"? I have been told the opposite by a therapist, that I "present well" (at odds with my true need), and this wasn't helpful to the T either. I guess we can't all present in the way they want. Too bad.