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Old Mar 01, 2013, 01:56 PM
hamster-bamster hamster-bamster is offline
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Originally Posted by riotgrrrl View Post
Wonderful that you've found someone special - am very happy for you!

I hope too that you never feel the urge to self-harm again. I do have a little thought tho - its unhealthy to put too much emphasis on one person. It's much healthier, and much better for you if you deal with why you self-harm, and do your best to get it under control. Why? Because if you guys were ever to split, or fall out, you may find yourself coping with it by self-harming once more. She, and nobody else for that matter, is responsible for your happiness. That's something that you have to find with yourself.

Hugs to you.
Agreed. Capitalize on the fact that you are not SI now and try to work towards making this state of affairs a norm, regardless of your surroundings.