Tobey.....
My system has changed and morphed many times over the years....the way it is now is not the same as it was 10 or 20 years ago....transformations have occured....
...Anyway...
The most important thing I wanted to convey is just to say Hang In & Hang On...sometimes that's all one can do...Sounds like you have a lot going on right now....and not fun stuff....I'll be thinking about you....
Take Care....
--Angie--