Love is blind.. oh so blind... If he can't control his anger, or get help to control his anger, I'd suggest for you to just run. Run fast.. Because it never gets better, it always gets worse. Sometimes we feel oooo that wasn't so bad, I can deal with it. or He didn't mean to hurt me.... Bottom line that is just making excuses for him. Seems we for whatever reason I don't know, tend to not want to hurt those who hurt us.. So we minimize it.... And the pushing gets worse... and that first little slap turns into a punch..Next thing you know you are a basket case.. Afraid... Blaming yourself for what "he" does to you.... and Not knowing which way to turn............ So to avoid all of that, I'd suggest you find another person to invest your love in.... just my opinion....