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Old Mar 01, 2013, 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by hankster View Post
Okay. But generally we go to t and say, I have this problem with the world. T says, let's see how we can change YOU to get along better. Not, let's play-act a situation, t will be the world, the client will act the same, and the t will change so the client doesn't suffer the consequences. Then the client hasn't learned anything. The client must change. We were effed up.
This is why we don't often agree over therapists.
I would not go to one who play acts. (I am playing here)

In general though
I don't think the client has to suffer the consequences either.