Thanks for the hugs and welcomes! I too thought I couldn't post the way everyone else posted. I was sure everyone else would say things better than me, and that's kept me from posting. But I've decided after reading a lot here that everyone contributes no matter how eloquently they say things or what their point of view is. Different people and different personalities and different ways of saying things add to the depth of this forum and I think that's why it helps so many people.