Dear Friends,

I'm panicked and confused. I can't seem to get past this feeling. I work at a location where the company plans on closing its doors for good. I'm one of their top talent and was offered a job out of state at another location. My husband thought that it would be a great opportunity since I liked working for the company so much. Hesitant I accepted the offer. Sounds great so far. Here is the clincher, I have three kids ages 21, 20 and 19. Neither of them want to move with me and want to stay in the state in which they were raised. This is were panic struck me. I feel that they are not ready to be on their own and yet I've accepted this job out of state. My fear is that my husband and I won't be near them when they need us the most. I'm scared that they will go hungry, may be homeless, may have an accident, need emotional support, etc. Yet my husband doesn't seem that concerned. I'm so scared for them that my brain has short circuited and I'm left utterly stuck and in a state of panic. I love my job and we could use the money and my husband wants a change all great things but I worry about my kids. I need some solid wisdom that will help me put into perspective my life as I'm utterly stuck in my own head. I've had several meltdowns and haven't been able to sleep through out the night for three weeks now. This is unbearable.