If a friend looks down on u for losing a job, that doesn't sound like a friend at all. Jobs come and go, especially bad jobs. Wow ur friend called u fat and told u that ur figure is more important that maintaining a job? I'm already beginning to question said friends. Friends help cope with stress. Good friends anyways. Positive ones. I would look into a different crowd for the time being. What is it ur so stressed about. You seemed rather vague.