Dear one, we need to let go of our kids at some point. Yes, to us they will always be babies, but each one of your children is now a legal adult. They could all very well be away from home, going to college or whatever. My two guys are 21 and 20 and are both doing well away from home. I haven't seen one of them since August. They do check in every so often, though, and I am pleased with their maturity.

My advice: Follow your husband's lead, move, enjoy your new job and location, and trust that they will be okay.