That has to be really hard. I hate it when i did not knw i moved . it is scary. can you talk to the ones inside to see whats going on with the moving bit? As far as religon goes can you celebrate what ever religon each part wants to celebrate as long as it is not distructive/dangerous etc. It is okay that you guys have different beliefs. Sometimes when there are different beliefs and religous objects are triggering for us what we do is we put the objects in our inside rooma nd not out side.