Hi There,

I have attachment issues and abandonment issues too.

How do I see my loved ones, my Wife? With ambivalence to be honest. One minute she's the centre of my world, I adore her and I think the sun shines out of her backside. The next for no apparent reason to anyone else in the world I despise her. It could be that she is going to work or out with her friends. It's like she takes part of me with her. I feel frustrated when she's gone but while she is with me I feel like she doesn't love me.

I don't really have any advice with it to be honest as I don't know how to deal with it myself