Why not take more risks? If you see her again, talk to her and perhaps you'll find that she's single now. How else are you going to find out, unless you talk to her?

Life is about taking risks. We'll never learn anything unless we take risks. And yes, sometimes we get rejected but no one ever died from rejection. It can hurt, but everyone gets hurt at times. You WILL live thru it. And you CAN learn to soothe that hurt. Don't feed it by continuing to go over it time and time again. You need to learn to let that hurt go.

Find something to do, get into a hobby, meet new friends, join a club, volunteer in your spare time. There are a lot of things you can to do "entertain" yourself. Don't sit at home, remembering past hurts -- you'll never get over them.

I wish you the very best Koko -- please take good care of yourself. God bless and keep us posted, okay? Big hugs, Lee