I agree with everybody else- you have to seek treatment for you, not someone else, and you have to set the goals for yourself.
Since there's no such thing as "normal," we have to decide what we want to accomplish. We can't seek treatment in order to "fit in" with society or be what we "should" be. Don't should yourself.
For me, I went into treatment to stop the cycle of negative thoughts that plagued me, be able to forge stronger relationships, and be stable enough, emotionally, to be successful in my chosen field of work.

Cue my longer than necessary anecdote: For a long time, I was unmedicated and not in therapy, and my attitude towards relationships was that if people couldn't deal with me, then that was their problem, not mine. I was a ***** and that was just part of my personality. But, I was expecting people I loved to deal with me being straight up mean or neglectful to them because of my MI. I would say horrible things and be passive agressive then not understand why people gave up on me. I want to change that so I can be the kind of friend I want to be and know I am capable of being.

So, while I agree that you can't change just for other people, you do have to imagine what version of yourself you really want to be and try to attain that. Treatment isn't one size fit all, so if you're happy with yourself when your meditating, or in talk therapy, or doing reiki healing, or medicated, you just have to figure out what you want and how you can get there.

Sorry for an entire paragraph of "you" statements. Not feeling creative enough to reframe that in group therapy appropriate phrasing.