Thanks for the tip Rapunzel ... just one little problem: I'm a 24 yr old straight male.


Gotcha :-)

I did notice the theme of most of the responses was the assumption that I was a female and this addressed a husband as the problem.

but this is a serious problem that I am having.

I do appreciate all the answers I am receiving, they are helping me and some are hitting the nail right on the head.

-- Vincent Alexander (VinAlex)