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Keep talking to us, Speed. These are the things you need to get out.
His statement was one of not thinking clearly himself. It's just one man's
way of trying to make a sadness less painful.

He wants you to get over it, but his mind doesn't operate the way a woman's mind does and he is trying to push it aside, while you're steadily holding on to the deep grief of having lost someone you gave birth to.
TIME is what is going to do that for you. No other person can.

We just need to keep talking to your little child within and help her to
know that she's cared for and that things will be better and better
with time. Give that to yourself. Frankly, you're better off to face
it now than to repress it all and have it be an influence on you unconsciously for the rest of your life.

Getting involved in helping a child who needs it is going to be one avenue for you to feel your being needed again. You have so much to give, but
you must take the time now to help your own little child within to know
that love will come again--maybe in a different body shape and size, but it will be real love because it will be someone whom you are helping to
grow into an adult, as you are now.