For June Rain

"I promise I won't tell you to leave..perhaps I can help you look deep inside and understand..perhaps your pen, on wet paper, just needs to be put on some dry paper!!"

You just told me to leave :-).

"I notice you call your perpetrator '....it..' that, again shows inner lack of action to your fears...it's kind of a fear of your very own fears..a recoiling in times of trouble...a way of hurting "it.." without actually hurting IT."

I meant "it" as "a complete lack of respect for one who lowers himself beneath the role of an honorable human to that of an inanimate object." By useing the word 'it,' I am demonstrating that I have no respect for him and that he is nothing to me because he is no example of a man. I did find your statement quite interesting ... though it is a bit difficult to follow your exact intended meaning.

"Not to say you must leave...I believe the first step is, yes, understanding this scared to the point your blood runs dry...this FEELING....THEN once you understand how you feel about the situation...THEN re-assess how to handle those feelings.."

How correct you are about understanding the feeling. That is why I am so forceful about readers answering my questions and not telling me to leave ... I want to know why, not what to do about it. I already know what to do about it.
You say at the end "re-assess how to handle those feelings..", what do you mean by this?