You may have even broken it up yourself?! Who knows. And that's the problem, you didn't know each other well enough. Sorry to say, but I think you've built her up as a kind of superwoman, and believe me, nobody is like this, ever. So the problem is that no woman will ever live up to the expectations of a superwoman because its not possible.

I know that our feelings can be irrational where the heart is concerned. I'd try so very hard to try and get over her.. and allow someone else into your life - but wipe the slate clean in your head and let her be her own person. She may just wow you! Good luck & hugs.