Hi Davidpuppy,

I am not a doctor but I wanted to tell that you are a very nice loving son, your parents are very lucky to have you. I want you to know my heart goes on you and your family esp your mom. All she need is to be seen by a doctor. Is it possible that you can get a doctor that will visit your house for a period of time and pretend to be friends and observe her? I am sure a doctor can give an initial diagnosis from her observations and from your accounts. Well just a thought, I don't know if my idea is even acceptable, sorry. I know it is different in US. If she can't go to mental institutions why not one of the doctors pay a visit and just do a casual talk and visit and that way she can be observed without any hysteria. I hope to God this is possible so you can finally get an answer and your mom can have help she need. There is nothing wrong with being overly concerned but if it will give peace to everyone why not? My thoughts and prayers are for you.