Have you asked your bf to cut all contact with his ex? My bf's ex told him in a chat that she felt bad for messaging him since he was attached now (we had been together for 3mos) and that she was going to stop contacting him...(even though she is married)...anyways, she continued contacting him via txting and a few phone calls to his work that I know of. She had been asking him to come see her after he posted that he was in a relationship on fb...I really think she told him that she wouldn't contact anymore bc he hadn't gone to see her and she wanted him to say, no its okay to chat...but instead he replied, Thanks I would appreciate that, she would be pretty pissed if she knew I was talking to you...Anyways, I was and still am pissed that he lied but as far as I know he has not responded to her last email. Good Luck...