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Originally Posted by Asiablue
Dreamy thanks so much for your reply. I can tell by what you wrote that you know exactly what i'm going thru.
Some days are better than others and on the whole i'm doing better with it than i expected. but when the grief washes over me, it catches my breath, my heart feel like it has a hole in it and i just don't know how to console myself.
The best way to describe the feeling is like when someone dies and there's an ache and piece of you missing and you'd do anything to bring them back but it's impossible.
How is she able to do this. Just walk away so easily? Well, i'm not sure it is easy for her either judging by what she's said. But she's doing it anyway.  |
Oh Asia, I am so sorry to hear you and t have parted ways
from what you have posted you got on so well but the issues with boundaries became a problem!
I wish ts would keep their boundaries tight from the start to save heartache in the future.
When my t1 terminated me, the feelings were so intense I couldn't breathe at times. I became more Sui and lonely, at times I cried all night. I went through periods of extreme sadness, anger, longing, guilt and shame but I sought out a new t and it was the best thing I ever did!
T1 did what she thought was best for me even though it hurt and I didn't understand at the time.
Please don't blame yourself Asia, ts are responsible for boundaries. You did nothing wrong but please look after yourself now and talk and journal all about it