I have been dating my girlfriend (she's 23) since the past 6 months and really love her. We had an instant connection and things were great for the first few weeks. After that her step dad visited her and took advantage of the situation and sexually abused her. Since then, she has started going to therapy and is mentally a lot better but there continues to be zero intimacy.
I am trying to be patient but every now and then I get frustrated and end up revealing the frustration to her and it ruins the situation even more.
Please can someone give me practical advice on what to do here and how to deal with this.
We both really care for each other.