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Originally Posted by ECHOES
You are very insightful about how you feel ! That's great. You've provided a clue here, and that is that "all of a sudden" you don't want to spend time or be around anyone. Something happens right at that "all of a sudden" place that makes you want to retreat. Some fear, about expectations or intimacy or something. So you protectively retreat because you are making yourself safe.
You aren't whining at all  It makes perfect sense what you are saying. Do you have a therapist to help you with this? |
I have a counselor. She says I am currently experiencing fight or flight and I have chosen flight. Certain situations I am currently experiencing in my life are causing me to want to run away from everything. That's as far as we have gotten in our sessions. Now I have to wait for my next session to find out a way to handle it. I have, in the past, been diagnosed with BPD and I have other issues I battle with when feeling the way I feel. I know this would probably be better suited for the BPD forum I just wanted to answer your question. I hate being ignored and I try not to do to others what I hate done to me.
Thank you for your comments.