Idk, I think the wife has disengaged from the rs, and this is just more proof of it. He came home from work the other day, and nothing has changed. She's still playing computer games and she doesn't bother to stop when he comes home. She's not paying back her debt, it's going to be on him. I wouldn't advise him to go outside the rs. I'd advise him to get out of the rs. And that's the last I'll say, really.