I did once. The disclosure was forced, but not by the s/w. I did go back because the school didn't allow you to choose your s/w. I survived, but it poisoned the relationship - even though I liked the s/w.
Sometimes it's a nudge that is helpful. Sometimes it's too much. I err on the side of not pushing too hard, than not pushing enough - unless there is some critical time issue. I think it will eventually happen without the push. Things I never thought I'd talk about I have eventually gotten comfortable with in my own time - and I did other work in the meantime.
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