This post you made here also makes so much sense. Besides acting NPD, my mother also acts BPD along with HPD. She is literally a clusterf*ck of mental problems and it's extremely trying on me since she has abused me emotionally and played mind games with me since childhood. Not only that, but she has also destroyed many good relationships between other family members and seriously hurt many loved ones, and yet others walk on eggshells to avoid her blowing up at them and she thinks she is so entitled. I hate her... it might sound childish but why could I not have a normal parent? It just makes me so bitter and full of despair.