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Originally Posted by doyoutrustme
You guys have so many threads about bad therapists, or good therapy gone bad, or just good therapy that didn't work out. It makes me afraid to trust my T.
I also am just not a trusting person at all these days and when people talk very very fondly of their Ts I kind of cringe.
I don't know how to get past this. I don't feel like I should have to but apparently, to my PDOC/T, trust is like, a really big deal.
I really like him, I just keep him at an arms length.. just in case. Dont want to be hurt.
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If your t and your pdoc actually say they want you to trust them, you are a step ahead of me in my bad t relationship. My t said I should trust him ONCE. It turned out he didn't care, but I had a lot of clues other people probably would have picked up on that he didn't really want me to be there. If your t and pdoc are making a big deal that they want you to trust them, then you've got a lot more reason to trust them than I did. So I hope you can at least knock some of those posts (the ones by me) about bad t relationships off your list of concerns.