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Originally Posted by Fixated
I will concede the fact that I wasn't going terribly deep or vulnerable, but the things I was asking/talking about were important to me. I need to understand how to relate to T so that I can understand myself more and how to relate to people in general.
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My jaw nearly dropped at this statement. Your T needs to learn how to relate to YOU, not the other way around. If they can't, then you have to move on. I say this even though I am T shopping and it is a terrible experience. I'm sure that in time, though, I will have taken something away from their differing styles and approaches with me just during the "interview." You may gain some perspective on this horrible relationship with current T.