I used to date an older man who was at one point would step in sometimes as my dad he would fill in and do things that my dad would never do. I soon realized that I was making him out to be my dad and thats when he got abusive very controlling and controversial. I rectified my issues I had with my dad through therapy soon the relationship became null and void. I broke up with him after he choked me almost to death and since then I have had only problems with my dad and dealt them with my dad.

I guess ya just gotta try out some trauma therapy in hopes to clear up your issues with your "daddy" image.