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Originally Posted by riotgrrrl
Without sounding harsh, she is your wife, not a trained therapist, and by being your wife does not equal being able to understand/deal/respond well. And while I understand the feeling that you should be able to share everything, not everyone is able to cope with this - esp when she obviously has troubles of her own which will effect her ability to deal.
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Perhaps your right. She doesn't know how to deal with this. She says she just throws her hands up and does her own thing because she doesn't know what to do. I'm not sure why I told her. I just don't know how to deal with it on my own and I wanted her to know how I was feeling. I think I was scared and reaching out. I know it is not normal to have these feelings but I do. I can say I don't and pretend to be happy, but that isn't dealing with anything.