You also have to take everything with a grain of salt. What people post here is their side of the T relationship and who knows what the T's side is. They may be legitimately attempting to do all they can for their patients but a lot of times the patient has a system of acting/thinking that makes them struggle against the T and makes trust harder.

It took me two years to build up trust for my T and I still have this reservation of "what's going to happen to make him dump me?"