So you don't think that to the fact she always has the hots for the same type of people is not related or insignificant?

I mentioned of transference and didn't mention of counter-transference (which is when therapist reciprocated the feelings of his/her patient) and what your last comment is indicating.

Research shows that there is a very thin line between true love and transference. It makes you wonder, doesn't, why abused girls get attracted to abusive boyfriends?

Here's more detail info on transference and counter transference: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transference and more why the poster has an erotic idea of her pattern in having the hots for unattainable and older T: http://www.guidetopsychology.com/ero...ansference.htm