Oh, great.

Now it's after midnight and my son is sending me text messages out of the blue, criticizing me for being mad at the cat.

Now I'm pissed at him.

He moved out a month ago and I never hear from him unless he wants something. He ignores my calls and ignores my texts, but if he texts me I'm supposed to pay attention immediately. The only exception is 3 times he has spent about an hour with me and I paid for coffee or meals.

Before that, I had a little over a year of us living in the same house and him NEVER having time for me. For the last 6 months or so, the girlfriend lived here. Never asked me for permission for her to even stay the night and somehow she ended up living here. Didn't contribute a dime for rent or utilities.

So, yeah. Now I'm sitting here, bombarded with text messages.

I said he never bothered to help me with the cat while so he doesn't get to criticize.

It was difficult as hell to even get him to change the litter box.

Just made me mad.

I'm already dealing with enough crap in my life, and a lot of it was caused by him, and now he's heaping more guilt on me without offering any solution to help.