Hard decision Purple. Kind of rough mountain life where I live. I have a friend who works at vet here, she chose to euthanize her cat who urinated everywhere in her house. I have 5 cats and someone is peeing everywhere, last week on my kitchen counter on the bread. It's so frustrating. But I don't know which cat is doing it, and they are welcome to come in and out as they please. But when there is already enough, too much going on, like it is for you right now, find the cat a new home. Can ur son take it in?