Whoever abused you did so because of whom they are ... not because of whom you are. You were only the victim ... You could have been anyone, it didn't matter who. You didn't cause it.

What happened to you was a crime.
You didn't do anything except become the victim of the crime.
Whomever it that did this to you was a criminal.

These events will eventually be a matter for the courts, and then the law of your country will want you to talk about who did what, and when & where it happened. But you will be part of a process.

So yes, tinyrabbit ... Initially you need to get out you feelings about how you felt, physically and emotionally, when you first were abused. Your theripist will help you process and explore what you're been through.

roadie