while I may say I do not trust my T, it is 1)because I just met him last month, 2)he's a male (I have HUGE trust issues with being honest and comfortable with men, so it's not his fault...). It's something I work hard to work through. Trust can be very difficult, but it can happen... I've had more positive experiences with T's than negative ones... Think about what you want/need out of T before you give up...