I've been in therapy for other concerns, but most recently, I was in therapy last year. The problem was, I went through two therapists in the span of two months. I live in a remote city (in northern Canada though, not across the pond...left of Greenland on the map ) and we have a terrible time filling a lot of positions up here - medical positions especially. Both of my therapists left to go south after I had worked up the courage to really begin to get into my problems. I haven't been back...it's terribly exhausting to go through it all over again. I do want to return, but...I suppose I'm just not sure how many times I can do it. I guess I could find out how long the therapist will be around before I start. The question of whether or not they are a "good" therapist is a separate issue all together.

In any case, yes, my hubs and I had some problems last year. We worked a lot of things out on our own. We actually do communicate quite well, but I'm not saying that it's not a lot of hard work to do so, or that we always get it right.

Anyway, I suppose I wasn't as alarmed about things as you are, so perhaps there is something I'm not seeing quite yet. I have a lot of issues that I know I need to work through on my own, let alone related to my relationship, so I'll give our mental health office a call to see what I can do.

Thanks for your support...