Since I came to this forum, I remember in particular two PC people who had just horrifying stories to tell about their past lives - and over time, I have seen them change, and grow, and yes, heal.

One of them has left PC now and is living her life in the sunshine
and the other is approaching that momentous day.

It makes my heart glad, month by month, to see their growth.

And BTW, it's happening for a lot of people on here.
I know I say it's a h*11 of a system, but it does work.
You read someone's posts over time, you sense changes in them for the good. It's truly a beautiful thing.