I understand this is probably a painful issue for you but I did have to smile. It reminded me of when I had a consultation with my very first private t who worked from home. Up until then I'd only seen ts in agencies and other professional environments. I was desperate for the toilet but didn't know if it would be imappropriate or a boundary breach to ask, especially as her toilet was upstairs and we met downstairs. In the end I 'held it in' until I got home which was obviously uncomfortable.

I remember posting a thread when I got home asking whether it was okay to use a t's toilet! Now of course I know that it is but at the time it horrified yet amused the child part of me at the same time. I didn't go back to see this t but I now see another private t and I use her toilet a lot. Luckily she's quite clean but it still feels quite strange to me to see where she showers and um does her private bathroom business.