Thanks for the feedback and support. I am a very intuitive person. I am a RN and I feel I have excellent observational skills, as well as, I am sensitive to peoples feelings. Combined that with my past trust issues and it equals a cynical person

I have experienced "gut" feelings 2x's before that turned out to be very accurate. With this situation I do have a gut feeling that there was/is inappropriate communication occurring. I believe I may have caught it early enough. I was slower the first time around and in reality I had been at the "whatever" stage for over 13 years. I refuse to get to that stage again and to remain in a loveless marriage again.

I do feel that we are very compatible and that we have had a lot of stressors early in our relationship to deal with that has contributed to us getting off track. I just hope that this will not be another "band aid" over the wounds created as I cannot/will not take any more insults.