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Mar 04, 2013, 07:29 PM
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Member Since: Dec 2012
Location: California
Posts: 2,248
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Originally Posted by button30
Towards the end, she would not answer my calls or texts and I didn't send her many, mostly only replies for schedule changes and once I was having an emergency and nothing, she never replied , she was always distancing and sending mixed messages and I thought I was going crazy with her.
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Its sounds like you got really mixed messages from her. I think that tends to make people cling more, and is a crazy-maker. Kids who are abused often cling harder to their parents than kids who are free to be angry with their parents. I can understand how you would feel like you were going crazy, not knowing who she would be and hoping she would be the responsive one and then sometimes being disappointed. It's taken me a while to get past my former T who was responsive one minute and distancing the next. But it's doable. It doesn't hurt forever although I imagine I might always have sadness related to it.
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