Babies are not meant to be brought into this world as welcomed distractions from our mundane partyless lives.

I know plenty people enjoying themselves before having babies who do NOT party.

The fact that you speak of party lifestyle when we say enjoy, is worrying. Do you not know enjoyment? why is your definition of enjoyment drunken shenanigans?

Take this time to introduce yourself to enjoyment instead of making babies.

Just because you like staying in doesn't mean a baby would, remember that.

A child is not a filler episode in your life's drama....

I agree that therapy would be beneficial, really, be a good future mom and sought yourself out before bringng an innocent into this crazy world.