No need to rush having a baby. With my first 2 children I went through mega fertility treatments to conceive and carry them to term. They are now 17 yo, 15 yo. God gave me another precious gift 20 months ago. I was 40 yo when I conceived my last child and it was a total shocker to my spouse and myself.

I agree with the others comments regarding the length of time you have been with your BF as being in the honeymoon phase yet. When I conceived my last child my husband now, BF at the time, had only been dating 1 year. I would not go back and erase having her but I can tell you that the first couple of years of marriage are tough enough when its just the 2 of you.