I have been feeling emotionally disconnected and uncared from my spouse for sometime now. I finally sought out counseling through my EAP. She recommended that we both take The 5 Love Language assessment to help figure out what exactly we need from each other. You will have to do a search for the web address as I cannot submit a link until I have 10 posts .

Seemed accurate in its assessment of myself. I did purchase the book as well and a lot of the theory behind the assessment was dead on for me in regards to my first marriage and where we went wrong.