Hi cougmom, its great you have a regular routine for her as this is most important. Childten easily get distracted and I find that mine needs instructions in the exact order. Eg. Brush your teeth and then get dressed. Not, get ready for school. Small bits and not 3 things at a time. If thrres any distraction such as tv or elecyronics there is no getting his attention. I know how frustrating it can be, but they need as much one to one attention as possible. Do you have other children? I find with my son, any other noise going on will get him hyper. You need to get a coversation going with the doctor who diagnosed him to get their suggestion. Hope this helps, kelly